Friends Voices

Stories of volunteers supporting the health service since 1949

Edna Ellis, The League of Friends of the Denbighshire Infirmary - Denbighshire, Wales

Edna Ellis, The League of Friends of the Denbighshire Infirmary

Edna Ellis - Denbighshire, Wales

Denbigh is where Edna belongs. A farmers daughter, and then running her own farm, a life that had time to support the local community were hallmarks of her story.

It was clearly expected, and at the same time never resented, that she got involved in supporting the community, and particularly the Friends at the hospital.

We all did a lot of fundraising in those days. The one that stood out most was the thermometer on the outside showing how much money we wanted to raise. It was thousands.

Fundraising for items really was important. Edna also shares about a visit from Princess Anne that she was instrumental in making happen.

Finally, we hear how Edna is comfortable spending her last days in the community she calls home, the place where her friends can come and visit her.

Edna died three months after the interview.

Friends as a family legacy

Interviewer

So could I start by asking your name?

Edna Ellis

Edna Ellis.

Interviewer

And could I ask how old you are, Edna?

Edna Ellis

I am 90, 91 in July.

Interviewer

And looking fantastic, I have to say. Could I ask which League of Friends we are talking about today?

Edna Ellis

Denbigh Infirmary.

Interviewer

So could you tell us a bit of your story, how you got involved with the League of Friends?

Edna Ellis

Yes. Well, my mother was in the League of Friends, had been for a long time. And the Secretary was leaving, wanted to give up, not leaving, she was judged to give up the job, and nobody wanted to take it on  So my mother rightly says, “oh, it’s alright. Edna will do it.” I wasn’t asked. I was told! And so I went to the next meeting, and I took over the job, and I did it for a heck of a long time. I can’t remember how many years.

The role of the Secretary in the Friends

Interviewer

So how old were you when you were persuaded that you were going onto the committee? Roughly?

Edna Ellis

I would have been in my thirties, I suppose.

Interviewer

Okay, so you sort of got an established life already.

Edna Ellis

Yes, I was a farmer’s wife.

Interviewer

A farmer’s wife. So how does a farmer’s wife fit in being Secretary of the League of Friends?

Edna Ellis

I don’t really know, but I did it for a long, long time.

Interviewer

And was it the sort of role where you did the admin, or did you get caught up in everything that the friends group were doing?

Edna Ellis

I did get caught up in it all. In it all really. With the admin, and everything.

Fundraising as a core contribution of Friends

Interviewer

And so were you sort of involved in fundraising?

Edna Ellis

Oh yes. Very much so. We all did a lot of fundraising in those days. The one, that stood out most was the thermometer on the outside, you know, as how much money we wanted to raise. It was thousands. Andrew wanted to raise this money for, I think we were either, I can’t remember what it was for now, but it was, it was either an extension or putting something else up, but it was a lot of money. And so we had to have all sorts of things to make this money. And then we had the staff decided they were coming in on this as well. So the staff decided to do a pantomime. So it was the staff, the doctors, everybody was involved in this thing, and they ran it for a week. It was on every night for a week. And the stage was trolleys, surgical trolleys fastened together, the curtains were everybody’s lounge curtains put up the width and breadth of the room and all these other things. It really went very well. You know, the doctors, everybody worked well in it, that itself raised a lot of money. But that was the thing, back then in those days. Was that in between the staff and the…

Interviewer

Volunteers?

Edna Ellis

…and the League, they worked together, but we did a lot of money raising for them.

Interviewer

I think it’s interesting because I think today when people look at friends groups, they often think about buying equipment, but they don’t necessarily know that over the decades the friends also paid for quite a lot of bricks and mortar as well.

Edna Ellis

Yes, they did. They did. Yes.

Volunteering in a Community Hospital

Interviewer

So for those of us that are listening who perhaps don’t know where Denbigh is, or what the hospital is like, how big is the hospital roughly?

Edna Ellis

It’s just a small community hospital

Interviewer

A couple of wards or?..

Edna Ellis

Yes, it did have quite a few wards upstairs, and downstairs. But just as I was giving up the League of Friends, presumably the NHS decided that we couldn’t have the wards upstairs because we had the kitchen underneath them. So it was a fire risk. There’d been a fire risk since heaven knows when, but they suddenly decided that it had to go. So there were no wards upstairs at all. So we lost 1, 2, 3, 4 or 5 wards upstairs. And that one we used that. But it’s only two wards there now.

Interviewer

Okay.

Edna Ellis

I was in one of them last year. But lot of the stuff that we did, the alterations, and the things that we did are all still involved.

Interviewer

So another thing that I’ve noticed is that friends groups are still quite vibrant in the small local communities. You know, the big hospitals sometimes it’s harder, But in the local community, your Mum was involved, it was, you were a local farmer’s wife, have the friends group here always sort of been a lot of local people?

Edna Ellis

All been local. Yes. Always local.

Interviewer

And they were keen to keep the hospital.

Edna Ellis

Oh, very much so, yes.

Interviewer

Yes. That, that’s another.  We can sometimes get a bit militant as friends. Can’t we? Yes. But we don’t want to lose our beds. We don’t want to lose our hospital.

A visit from Princess Anne

Edna Ellis

No, no. And then the hospital had, while I was at the League, the hospital, it’s the oldest in Wales, I think it was… And it had its 200th birthday, so we decided we’d have to have a big celebration for this. So “did we think we could get the Queen?” I said, “Well, I’ll try. Do what I can do. I can’t do any more than that.” So I got hold of the appropriate people, and I was told “that it was very difficult to get the Queen and the dates didn’t tally, but would we be happy with Princess Anne?” So I said, “Well, I’ll consult the hospital and I can see you can’t see any reason why not, but, well,  I’ll consult them first.” So I went back, and I said “I couldn’t get the Queen, but I can get Princess Anne if… is that any good?”

Edna Ellis

Well, they were delighted when I said we could have somebody from the Royal Family. So Princess Anne came, and so we arranged it all. We invited the local kids schools, to send kids as representatives, and we had them all out there. To welcome the Princess when she came, but she arrived by helicopter at the back of the schools, and came by car from there, whizzed through the gate, straight up to the door. And all these kids were standing, you know, from the gateway in a  line. “That was her, that was the Princess”, so not amused. She came in, and we all met her, and all the rest of it. And then we started on the tour of the hospital and then Dennis came to me and said that the kids were all disappointed because the Princess wasn’t really seen, as they thought.

Edna Ellis

And they’d got pictures, and all sorts. So I spoke to a Lady in Waiting and she said, “leave it with me.” She said, she came back to me, and she said “that she’d spoken to Princess Anne” and she had said “that if we could get hold of the schools, and ask them to bring the children back, bring them to the back of the hospital”, because the Princess was going to go out through the back, and her car would pick her up there, she would speak to all of the children”, which she did. So that saved the day. But unfortunately when she got back to a helicopter, the helicopter wouldn’t start. But I couldn’t laugh…

Interviewer

How fantastic though! And, and that determination, and that care really comes through in that story, that determination for the community that they want to be recognised. Yes. And, and actually that when they get somebody to come and recognise them, they all want to be part of it as well. It’s really important.

The benefits of being cared for in your local community

Edna Ellis

When I went into the hospital myself, the lady that came round with the food, she stopped when she got in the ward, and she spoke to everybody and she said, “well ladies and gentlemen, this lady was a member of The League of Friends at this hospital, and worked very, very, very hard for it, to get an awful lot of things that you’ve got.” At least I was recognised for something.

Interviewer

That’s good! So, so while we are thinking about, as someone who needed the service, did it matter to you? Do you think you got better more quickly? You felt happier, because you were actually in your own local community and hospital?

Edna Ellis

Oh, I think so. Yes. It made a big difference. Yes. Yes, I did. My first where I came from Llandudno to Denbigh, I thought, “God, I’m in an old folk’s home.” They’re already all staring into space. But once I got over that, yes, the service I got up there was wonderful. Yes. So they were very good.

Interviewer

And you’re literally, you’ve just almost hopped across the street now, into here?

Edna Ellis

Into here, yes.

Interviewer

And…

Edna Ellis

Come around the corner from there to here, the hospitals over there.

Interviewer

And what does that mean to you to be actually, still in your community?

Edna Ellis

Still in the community? Very much. Yes.

Interviewer

Because, one assumes some of your friends are not in the first flush of youth?

Edna Ellis

Not many of them! No not many of them…

Interviewer

But there’s the possibility that either you can still go and visit them, or they can come…

Edna Ellis

And visit me? Yes. I’m the oldest of them all. So they visit me.

Interviewer

That’s nice.

Edna Ellis

It is very nice. Yes. And that’s why I chose here because, I was in my own town. I did visit a newer place in Ruthin, which is only seven miles down the road. But I thought, my friends are coming to Denbigh to do their shopping, so they’ll pop in. You know, on their way back from shopping. Whereas it’s an effort to go to Ruthin, it’s a different matter.

Interviewer

Absolutely.

Interviewer

So, now when you knew I was coming today, is there anything that you thought you might like to tell me that you haven’t had the opportunity to say yet?

Edna Ellis

No. Well, I really have no idea what you were coming for, and my main thing was, I hope, I can remember anything.

Edna Ellis

When we start, you start talking, you think about things.

Interviewer

I think it’s been lovely, and I think you’ve given us a slightly different perspective than we’ve heard from anybody else. And that’s lovely. And that’s really what this story’s all about. It’s about different people’s stories. Yes. And we’ll come back, and we’ll interview another couple of volunteers. from Denbigh, and we’ll see, because their story will add to yours, and make it richer. So thank you ever so much.

 

About this story

Contributor: Edna Ellis
Recorded on: 25 March 2025
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